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Speaking the Unspeakable by Stacie Ysidro

Are you struggling to communicate your sexual needs, desires and boundaries? You are not alone. It's important to examine and understand your arousal and desire. As well as to learn how to express your needs, desires and boundaries clearly and respectfully.

It's not uncommon to feel hesitant or even scared about having a difficult conversation with someone. Especially when you haven't found words to explain what is present with you. Maybe you need to confront a friend about a behavior that's been bothering you, or perhaps you need to have a serious discussion with a family member about a sensitive topic... or perhaps you want to talk about your relationship and sex life with a partner. Whatever the situation may be, the fear of how the other person will respond can be overwhelming.

Engaging in.difficult conversations can help us grow and learn from others. When we have honest conversations, we're forced to confront our own desires, boundaries,biases and assumptions. Giving us an opportunity to speak into what is truly present with us so that we can get what we want and need. We can learn from the perspectives and experiences of others, which can help us become more confident, secure, compassionate and understanding individuals.

Difficult conversations also help build trust and respect. When we're willing to be vulnerable and share our thoughts and feelings, we show others that we value their opinions and that we're committed to building a strong relationship. This can lead to deeper connections and improved communication.

At our event on May 10, 2023, Eros Exploration, we provide a safe, non judgmental and supportive environment where you can learn how to have difficult conversations with confidence.

Guided by Stacie Ysidro, your sex life stylist, we will learn some techniques designed to help you find the right words and overcome your fears. We will do some practice resulting in you feeling empowered and equipped to tackle tough conversations in your personal and professional life.

Here are 5 tips to get you start the conversation

1.First begin by making sure the other person has the time, energy and capacity to have the conversation with you.

2. Lead with love, vulnerability, courage and an open heart and mind.

3.Be honest: Share your own thoughts and feelings. Speak in the I when possible. Take responsibility for your experience.

4. Do not take anything personally! Avoid making assumptions or judgments about the other person's experiences or preferences.

5. Use clear language: Use words that are clear and unambiguous, speaking in metaphors, in general or vague causes confusion and misunderstanding.

Learn More tips and methods of communicating at our eventEros Exploration May 10, 2023

It's important to remember that everyone has feelings, desires for touch and intimacy, and a right to be in pleasure. By learning how to communicate your sexual needs, desires and boundaries, you can deepen your connections and experience more fulfilling relationships. By communicating your needs clearly and respectfully, you can build trust and intimacy with your partner.

If you're struggling to express yourself or understand your arousal, consider reaching out to me. I can help you navigate these complex issues. Don't let shame or societal norms hold you back from experiencing the full range of human emotions and pleasures.

By Stacie Ysidro full article here

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